
The Self-Driven Child
Helping parents raise kids with healthy motivation and resilience in facing life's challenges. Oh, and having more fun while doing it!
Episodes
46 episodes
From Damsel in Distress to Superhero: The Making of a Teen Mental Health Advocate For Students
If you've ever felt like the challenges of school, stress, and expectations are just too much, you’re not alone. In this episode, I sit down with the incredible Riana Alexander, a college freshman and mental health advocate, who turned her own ...
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Episode 47
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53:12

A Superhero For Student Autonomy in Schools: Talking With Mike Nicholson About What Works
Hey folks, Ned here! You know how much we all want our kids and students to thrive, but sometimes, despite our best efforts, it feels like we’re stuck in the same old patterns that just don’t work. That’s why I’m thrilled about today’s episode....
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Episode 46
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50:54

What I Learned About Motivation From "Ghost Buster" Yegor Denisov-blanch
What if some of the people on your team weren’t actually working—but just good at looking busy? In this episode, I sit down with Yegor Denisov-Blanch to discuss a fascinating and troubling trend in the tech world: ghost engineers. Thes...
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Season 1
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Episode 45
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48:03

Student Autonomy in School: Yep, It's Possible!
In this episode, I sit down with Amy Buckman, an incredible educator and school counselor from Ohio. Amy has spent 19 years helping students navigate everything from mental health challenges to career counseling, all while motivating them to ac...
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Episode 44
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52:37

The Disengaged Teen Part 2
In this follow-up episode, I continue my conversation with Rebecca Winthrop and Jenny Anderson, authors of The Disengaged Teen: Helping Kids Learn Better, Feel Better, and Live Better. We dive deeper into the strategies parents and edu...
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Episode 43
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37:27

The Disengaged Teen Part 1
Are you worried about how engaged your child is in school and their learning? You’re not alone. In this episode of The Self-Driven Child Podcast, I sit down with two powerhouse guests—Rebecca Winthrop and Jenny Anderson—authors of the ...
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Season 1
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Episode 42
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34:57

Independent Travel: A low-cost, high-impact way to prepare teens for college and life
Ready to ignite your child’s wanderlust? In this episode of The Self-Driven Child Podcast, I sit down with the incredible Blake Bole, an expert in self-directed learning and international travel for teens and young adults. From unschooling to t...
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Season 1
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Episode 41
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52:56

The SAT, ACT, and Other Four-Letter Words: What Do You Say When Your Kid's Scores are Low?
Let’s talk about a reality that many parents and teens face: handling disappointing standardized test scores. It’s a topic that stirs up all kinds of feelings—stress, doubt, frustration—and how we as parents respond makes all the difference. I ...
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Episode 40
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22:35

A Sense of Control Continued: How Students Achieve Academic Success With Less Stress
In this continuation episode, I’m back with Dr. Bill Stixrud for part two of our discussion that digs into the realities of raising kids in high-pressure academic environments. We explore the subtle yet powerful concept of being a “non-anxious ...
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Season 1
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Episode 39
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24:07

A Sense of Control: How Students Achieve Academic Success With Less Stress
In this episode of The Self-Driven Child Podcast, I’m joined by the brilliant Dr. Bill Stixrud, co-author of The Self-Driven Child and What Do You Say? We dive into the challenges parents face around academic pressure, mental ...
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Season 1
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Episode 38
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31:38

Grades, Rakes, and Reflection: Helping Kids Do Less To Do Better - With Teacher & Writer Tim Donahue
In this episode, I sit down with Tim Donahue, a seasoned high school English teacher and a writer, to dive into the pressures of grade inflation, the impact on student resilience, and why kids today feel overwhelmed by academic and extracurricu...
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Season 1
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Episode 37
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49:52

Brainless Education: A Conversation About the Brain Science Too Often Ignored in Most Schools
Welcome to The Self-Driven Child podcast! In this episode, I chat with Dr. William Stixrud, co-author of The Self-Driven Child, to explore the concept of “brainless education” and why the way we approach learning in schools often overlooks the ...
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Season 1
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Episode 36
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47:25

Parental (Over) Involvement & The Start of College - A Conversation with Jess Lahey
In this episode of the Self Driven Child podcast, I'm thrilled to welcome back one of my favorite voices in parenting, Jess Lahey. Jess is a New York Times bestselling author, an educator, and someone who's been on the front lines of both teach...
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Season 1
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Episode 35
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45:06

What Do You Say? Why we LOVE Book #2!
In this episode, I sit down with my co-author, Dr. William R. Stixrud, to do an origin story into the key concepts from our latest book, "What Do You Say?: How to Talk with Kids to Build Motivation, Stress Tolerance, and a Happy Home". We discu...
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Season 1
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Episode 34
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27:19

The Self-Driven Child: How We Got There (aka The Marvel Origin Story)
Today we are talking about the roots of "The Self Driven Child" with my co-author, Dr. William R. Stixrud. Discover how our understanding of autonomy and control transformed our approach to parenting and education. We explore the neuroscience b...
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Season 1
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Episode 33
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34:05

Choosing a New School: Why, When, and How
Hey everyone, welcome back to The Self-Driven Child Podcast! In this episode, I sit down with the incredibly insightful Wendy Wilkinson, a parent educator and admissions expert with decades of experience. Wendy shares her wisdom on how to find ...
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Season 1
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Episode 32
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44:20

Lessons on Self-Directed Learning with "Adventure Kaity!" Part 2
Welcome back to the Self Driven Child Podcast! In this episode, we're continuing our incredible conversation with Kaity Broadbent, head of learning at Prenda. Kaity's insights into creating nurturing learning environments are game-changing, and...
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Episode 31
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32:02

Lessons on Self-Directed Learning with "Adventure Kaity!" Part 1
Today, I'm thrilled to have Kaity Broadbent, an extraordinary educator and parent, joining us. Kaity is the head of learning at Prenda, an organization dedicated to creating micro-schools that empower students and parents alike. In this episode...
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Season 1
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Episode 30
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31:14

Who’s Ready for College? with William Stixrud, Ph.D.
In today's episode, we explore the complexities of an issue that's close to the hearts of parents, teachers, and students alike—college readiness. Alongside my friend and co-author Bill Stixrud, we discuss the crucial aspects that determine whe...
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Season 1
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Episode 29
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42:01

The Craziest Year Ever in College Admission with Jeff Selingo
In this episode of the Self-Driven Child Podcast, we're discussing the ever-tumultuous world of college admissions with special guest Jeff Selingo, a seasoned expert and author who's spent over two decades exploring higher education. We’ll diss...
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Season 1
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Episode 28
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45:46

The Sleep-Deprived Teen with Lisa L. Lewis
Listen in as I chat with Journalist Lisa L. Lewis about the importance of sleep for teens. We explore why sleep matters for learning, behavior, and mental health. Lisa also shares her pivotal role in getting California to pass a landmark law on...
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Season 1
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Episode 27
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50:29

Hunt, Gather, Parent with Michaeleen Doucleff
In this episode, I chat with NPR reporter Michaeleen Doucleff about her New York Times bestseller, Hunt, Gather, Parent: What Ancient Cultures Can Teach Us About the Lost Art of Raising Happy, Helpful Little Humans.We discuss what Micha...
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Episode 26
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1:03:54

New Year's Resolution: Aka, "How Do I Get My Kid To....?"
In this episode, I have a great conversation with my co-author and friend Dr. Bill Stixrud about motivation and change, especially as we start a new year. We discuss the difference between intrinsic and extrinsic motivation and how to help kids...
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Season 1
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Episode 25
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36:09

2023 Reflections
I have spent over 25 years talking with parents about supporting their kids' education and wellbeing. After a turbulent few years dealing with the pandemic, I offer compassionate reflections on what I’ve learned about helping kids heal up befor...
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Episode 24
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21:18

Embracing Adulting: Insights from Julie Lythcott-Haims
In today’s episode, I dig into the art of adulting with the phenomenal Julie Lythcott-Haims. Julie is not just a former Stanford Dean and a New York Times bestselling author; she's a beacon of wisdom for the youth and an advocate for the exhila...
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Episode 23
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57:19
