The Self-Driven Child
Helping parents raise kids with healthy motivation and resilience in facing life's challenges. Oh, and having more fun while doing it!
Episodes
40 episodes
Independent Travel: A low-cost, high-impact way to prepare teens for college and life
Ready to ignite your child’s wanderlust? In this episode of The Self-Driven Child Podcast, I sit down with the incredible Blake Bole, an expert in self-directed learning and international travel for teens and young adults. From unschooling to t...
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Episode 41
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52:56
The SAT, ACT, and Other Four-Letter Words: What Do You Say When Your Kid's Scores are Low?
Let’s talk about a reality that many parents and teens face: handling disappointing standardized test scores. It’s a topic that stirs up all kinds of feelings—stress, doubt, frustration—and how we as parents respond makes all the difference. I ...
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Episode 40
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22:35
A Sense of Control Continued: How Students Achieve Academic Success With Less Stress
In this continuation episode, I’m back with Dr. Bill Stixrud for part two of our discussion that digs into the realities of raising kids in high-pressure academic environments. We explore the subtle yet powerful concept of being a “non-anxious ...
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Episode 39
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24:07
A Sense of Control: How Students Achieve Academic Success With Less Stress
In this episode of The Self-Driven Child Podcast, I’m joined by the brilliant Dr. Bill Stixrud, co-author of The Self-Driven Child and What Do You Say? We dive into the challenges parents face around academic pressure, mental ...
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Episode 38
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31:38
Grades, Rakes, and Reflection: Helping Kids Do Less To Do Better - With Teacher & Writer Tim Donahue
In this episode, I sit down with Tim Donahue, a seasoned high school English teacher and a writer, to dive into the pressures of grade inflation, the impact on student resilience, and why kids today feel overwhelmed by academic and extracurricu...
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Episode 37
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49:52
Brainless Education: A Conversation About the Brain Science Too Often Ignored in Most Schools
Welcome to The Self-Driven Child podcast! In this episode, I chat with Dr. William Stixrud, co-author of The Self-Driven Child, to explore the concept of “brainless education” and why the way we approach learning in schools often overlooks the ...
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Episode 36
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47:25
Parental (Over) Involvement & The Start of College - A Conversation with Jess Lahey
In this episode of the Self Driven Child podcast, I'm thrilled to welcome back one of my favorite voices in parenting, Jess Lahey. Jess is a New York Times bestselling author, an educator, and someone who's been on the front lines of both teach...
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Episode 35
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45:06
What Do You Say? Why we LOVE Book #2!
In this episode, I sit down with my co-author, Dr. William R. Stixrud, to do an origin story into the key concepts from our latest book, "What Do You Say?: How to Talk with Kids to Build Motivation, Stress Tolerance, and a Happy Home". We discu...
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Episode 34
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27:19
The Self-Driven Child: How We Got There (aka The Marvel Origin Story)
Today we are talking about the roots of "The Self Driven Child" with my co-author, Dr. William R. Stixrud. Discover how our understanding of autonomy and control transformed our approach to parenting and education. We explore the neuroscience b...
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Episode 33
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34:05
Choosing a New School: Why, When, and How
Hey everyone, welcome back to The Self-Driven Child Podcast! In this episode, I sit down with the incredibly insightful Wendy Wilkinson, a parent educator and admissions expert with decades of experience. Wendy shares her wisdom on how to find ...
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Episode 32
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44:20
Lessons on Self-Directed Learning with "Adventure Kaity!" Part 2
Welcome back to the Self Driven Child Podcast! In this episode, we're continuing our incredible conversation with Kaity Broadbent, head of learning at Prenda. Kaity's insights into creating nurturing learning environments are game-changing, and...
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Episode 31
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32:02
Lessons on Self-Directed Learning with "Adventure Kaity!" Part 1
Today, I'm thrilled to have Kaity Broadbent, an extraordinary educator and parent, joining us. Kaity is the head of learning at Prenda, an organization dedicated to creating micro-schools that empower students and parents alike. In this episode...
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Episode 30
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31:14
Who’s Ready for College? with William Stixrud, Ph.D.
In today's episode, we explore the complexities of an issue that's close to the hearts of parents, teachers, and students alike—college readiness. Alongside my friend and co-author Bill Stixrud, we discuss the crucial aspects that determine whe...
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Episode 29
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42:01
The Craziest Year Ever in College Admission with Jeff Selingo
In this episode of the Self-Driven Child Podcast, we're discussing the ever-tumultuous world of college admissions with special guest Jeff Selingo, a seasoned expert and author who's spent over two decades exploring higher education. We’ll diss...
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Episode 28
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45:46
The Sleep-Deprived Teen with Lisa L. Lewis
Listen in as I chat with Journalist Lisa L. Lewis about the importance of sleep for teens. We explore why sleep matters for learning, behavior, and mental health. Lisa also shares her pivotal role in getting California to pass a landmark law on...
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Episode 27
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50:29
Hunt, Gather, Parent with Michaeleen Doucleff
In this episode, I chat with NPR reporter Michaeleen Doucleff about her New York Times bestseller, Hunt, Gather, Parent: What Ancient Cultures Can Teach Us About the Lost Art of Raising Happy, Helpful Little Humans.We discuss what Micha...
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Episode 26
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1:03:54
New Year's Resolution: Aka, "How Do I Get My Kid To....?"
In this episode, I have a great conversation with my co-author and friend Dr. Bill Stixrud about motivation and change, especially as we start a new year. We discuss the difference between intrinsic and extrinsic motivation and how to help kids...
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Episode 25
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36:09
2023 Reflections
I have spent over 25 years talking with parents about supporting their kids' education and wellbeing. After a turbulent few years dealing with the pandemic, I offer compassionate reflections on what I’ve learned about helping kids heal up befor...
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Episode 24
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21:18
Embracing Adulting: Insights from Julie Lythcott-Haims
In today’s episode, I dig into the art of adulting with the phenomenal Julie Lythcott-Haims. Julie is not just a former Stanford Dean and a New York Times bestselling author; she's a beacon of wisdom for the youth and an advocate for the exhila...
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Episode 23
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57:19
Thanksgiving and Families: A Talk with Phyllis L. Fagell and Dr. Robyn Silverman
This Thanksgiving episode tackles the inevitable family drama that comes with the holiday. I sat down with parenting experts Phyllis L. Fagell and Dr. Robyn Silverman to get their tips for navigating tricky conversations and situations with fam...
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Episode 22
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38:17
A Non-Anxious Presence with Dr. William Stixrud
I'm joined by my co-host and co-author of The Self-Driven Child Dr. William Stixrud to discuss how to be a non-anxious presence for your kids when things feel stressful and scary in the world. As parents and educators, modeling calmness and con...
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Episode 21
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29:52
How To Talk With Kids About Anything with Dr. Robyn Silverman
In this insightful interview, I am joined by my friend and co-author Dr. William Stixrud to speak with child development specialist Dr. Robyn Silverman. We discuss her new book, How to Talk with Kids About Anything. We dive into tough but criti...
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Episode 20
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49:09
This Simple Fix Could Help Anxious Kids: A Conversation with Lenore Skenazy
I’m thrilled to have Lenore Skenazy, founder of the Free-Range Kids movement, as my guest on the show today. Lenore has been sounding the alarm about childhood anxiety and overprotection for years, and she shares powerful insights from psycholo...
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Episode 19
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46:16
When Achievement Culture Becomes Toxic (with Jennifer Wallace)
Today I talk with Jennifer Wallace, an award-winning journalist and author of "Never Enough: When Achievement Pressure Becomes Toxic and What We Can Do About It." With an illustrious career that began at “60 Minutes” and her current role as a J...
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Episode 18
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41:02
Is it Autism? (with Dr. Donna Henderson)
In this enlightening conversation with the brilliant Dr. Donna Henderson, we delve into a topic that's close to my heart: autism. We attempt to debunk common misconceptions, discuss the true prevalence of the condition, and explore the challeng...
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Episode 16
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52:03